"Hey i see you like greys anatomy *high five*. Anyway, its cool to find a fellow trans*/gender questioning person from the midlands. How would you identify at the minute, where do you see yourself in terms of whether you will transition fully. To me you completely pass as male btw. :D"

Asked by rowansjourney

*High five*! =D Yay for Grey’s!

It is cool indeed =) Seems most of us folk are down in London or just generally miles away :/ So do you live in Birmingham yourself?

At the moment i identify generally as being anything but female. I can’t explain it well but i guess i just identify as masculine/3rd gendered, i mean i prefer male pronouns but i don’t feel i’m entirely male gendered. I don’t see myself transitioning fully, testosterone has more effects that i don’t want than i do so for now i won’t go down that route. Plus with my identity changing or bending constantly i’d worry about irreversible changes causing me more dysphoria. For now i’m okay with binding (as annoying as it is) and training my voice etc, but having a less curvy body would be the major help. I guess generally i’m just a varying genderqueer =) (long response is long, my bad!)

Thank you so so much! That means a lot =D You seem a rather sweet guy, i have to say =)